{"product_id":"wedding-vow-workbook","title":"The Wedding Vow Writing Workbook — 21 Prompts + 5 Keepsake Card Designs","description":"\u003ch3\u003eFor the couple who said \"I'll write my own vows\" — and then froze at a blank page.\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e30–40% of modern couples choose to write their own vows. Half of them get stuck somewhere between \"Babe, I love you\" and \"what do I actually want to say at the altar?\"\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThis workbook isn't a vow generator. It's a guided process that pulls the specific stories, promises, and inside-jokes out of you — the things AI can't possibly know — and helps you turn them into vows that sound like \u003cem\u003eyou\u003c\/em\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWhy a workbook, not a generator?\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eHere's what ChatGPT can't write for you:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThe coffee shop where you met (and the time of day, and what they were wearing)\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThe small daily ritual you share at 7am that nobody else sees\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThe hard truth you want to say out loud at the altar — but only after the right warm-up\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThe single line you want every guest to remember when they leave\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThis workbook walks you through 21 prompts in five groups — Origin, Promises, Inside Jokes, Honesty, Voice — that gather the raw material. Then a \u003cstrong\u003eTone Matrix\u003c\/strong\u003e lets you hear the same story in four voices (Traditional · Personal · Humorous · Religious) so you can pick the one that actually sounds like you. Then a \u003cstrong\u003eVow Checker\u003c\/strong\u003e audits your final draft against eight specific criteria. Then you print your vow card.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e90 minutes of real work, spread across one weekend.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eFour things this workbook does that AI cannot\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e1. 21 Guided Prompts in 5 Groups\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\nOrigin story · Promises · Inside jokes · Hard honesty · Voice \u0026amp; tone. One sentence per answer is enough. The workbook does the assembly later.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e2. Tone Matrix — Same Story, 4 Voices\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\nWrite the same segment four times, in four different voices. Most couples are stuck because they have the right content in the wrong tone. The matrix shows you in 20 minutes which voice fits.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e3. Vow Checker — 8 Auto-Audits\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\nLength (80–150 words). Read time (60–90 seconds). Cliché counter (scans for \"always · forever · soulmate · completes me…\"). Promise count (3–5 specific). Audience test. Closing punch. Pass 6 of 8 = ready to print.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e4. 5 Keepsake Card Designs (5×7\" double-sided)\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\nMinimal · Floral · Botanical Sage · Vintage · Modern. 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