{"title":"Wedding Planning Templates \u0026 Workbooks","description":"\u003cdiv class=\"ifshe-collection-seo\" data-ifshe-seo-v2=\"1\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"ifshe-coll-top\"\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFour digital wedding planning toolkits for the jobs a generic checklist skips: a multi-currency budget tracker in Google Sheets, a vow writing workbook with 21 prompts, a wellness workbook with 45 tools and 17 scripts, and a pet-inclusive planning kit.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eEvery item is a one-off download from £9 — buy once, keep forever, no subscriptions and no apps.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003chr class=\"ifshe-seo-hr\"\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"ifshe-coll-bottom\"\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eWhich toolkit fits your planning style?\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eEach download in this collection solves one specific problem, so start with whichever is causing the most friction right now:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eMulti-Currency Wedding Budget Tracker (£14)\u003c\/strong\u003e — the money. A Google Sheets tracker that splits costs across couples and parents and handles more than one currency, built for weddings where contributions arrive from several directions.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eWedding Vow Writing Workbook (£9)\u003c\/strong\u003e — the words. 21 prompts that move you from blank page to finished vows, plus 5 keepsake card designs so the final version becomes something you keep.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eWedding Anxiety \u0026amp; Wellness Workbook (£19)\u003c\/strong\u003e — the headspace. 45 structured tools and 17 ready-to-use scripts for the pressure points of the pre-wedding months.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePet-Inclusive Wedding Planning Kit (£15)\u003c\/strong\u003e — the dog. Or the cat. Practical logistics for including a pet in your day; as the title says, logistics, not outfits.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eWhy downloads rather than an app\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eEverything here is a file you own. The spreadsheets live in your own Google account, the workbooks are printable PDFs, and nothing expires or renews. You pay once, and the toolkit survives every date change, venue swap and replan — there is no subscription to cancel and no app to keep updated.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003eA sensible order to work through them\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eMoney questions usually arrive first, which makes the budget tracker the natural opening move; it becomes the document everything else refers back to. The wellness workbook earns its keep across the whole engagement rather than in a single sitting, while the vow workbook is best started a couple of months out, once you know the tone of the day. The pet kit slots in as soon as your venue confirms animals are welcome.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003ePlanning the day, then marking it\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSpreadsheets get you to the wedding; keepsakes outlast it. If you are still at the proposal stage, our \u003ca href=\"\/collections\/rings\"\u003eengagement ring buying guide\u003c\/a\u003e walks through stones, settings and budgets before any spreadsheet exists. For the two of you, \u003ca href=\"\/collections\/couples-jewellery\"\u003epersonalised couples jewellery\u003c\/a\u003e turns a planning milestone into something wearable. And when you brief your photographer, the \u003ca href=\"\/blogs\/wedding-planning\/wedding-photo-ideas-list\"\u003ewedding photo ideas list\u003c\/a\u003e sets out 13 briefable shots organised by phase of the day.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e\n\u003c\/div\u003e","products":[{"product_id":"wedding-budget-tracker","title":"Multi-Currency Wedding Budget Tracker — Splits Across Couples, Parents, and 4 Currencies","description":"\u003ch3\u003eBuilt for couples who don't fit the usual mold.\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you're paying for a wedding across borders, splitting costs with both sets of parents, or just tired of fighting your spreadsheet — this is the budget tracker we wish we'd had.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eMulti-currency (USD · GBP · EUR · CAD). Five-way contributor split. Month-by-month cash flow. Triple Access: Desktop, Mobile, Printable PDF.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eYou get:\u003c\/strong\u003e XLSX spreadsheet + 2 bonus printable PDFs (A4 + US Letter) + Quick-Start guide + README. Instant download after checkout.\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"IfShe","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43605858091082,"sku":null,"price":14.0,"currency_code":"GBP","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0554\/9450\/8618\/files\/hero-1600w_02f3d4ab-52d7-4e15-b700-1ccbd87ffe42.webp?v=1779526753"},{"product_id":"wedding-vow-workbook","title":"The Wedding Vow Writing Workbook — 21 Prompts + 5 Keepsake Card Designs","description":"\u003ch3\u003eFor the couple who said \"I'll write my own vows\" — and then froze at a blank page.\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e30–40% of modern couples choose to write their own vows. Half of them get stuck somewhere between \"Babe, I love you\" and \"what do I actually want to say at the altar?\"\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThis workbook isn't a vow generator. It's a guided process that pulls the specific stories, promises, and inside-jokes out of you — the things AI can't possibly know — and helps you turn them into vows that sound like \u003cem\u003eyou\u003c\/em\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eWhy a workbook, not a generator?\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eHere's what ChatGPT can't write for you:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThe coffee shop where you met (and the time of day, and what they were wearing)\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThe small daily ritual you share at 7am that nobody else sees\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThe hard truth you want to say out loud at the altar — but only after the right warm-up\u003c\/li\u003e\n  \u003cli\u003eThe single line you want every guest to remember when they leave\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThis workbook walks you through 21 prompts in five groups — Origin, Promises, Inside Jokes, Honesty, Voice — that gather the raw material. Then a \u003cstrong\u003eTone Matrix\u003c\/strong\u003e lets you hear the same story in four voices (Traditional · Personal · Humorous · Religious) so you can pick the one that actually sounds like you. Then a \u003cstrong\u003eVow Checker\u003c\/strong\u003e audits your final draft against eight specific criteria. Then you print your vow card.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e90 minutes of real work, spread across one weekend.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eFour things this workbook does that AI cannot\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e1. 21 Guided Prompts in 5 Groups\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\nOrigin story · Promises · Inside jokes · Hard honesty · Voice \u0026amp; tone. One sentence per answer is enough. The workbook does the assembly later.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e2. Tone Matrix — Same Story, 4 Voices\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\nWrite the same segment four times, in four different voices. Most couples are stuck because they have the right content in the wrong tone. The matrix shows you in 20 minutes which voice fits.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e3. Vow Checker — 8 Auto-Audits\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\nLength (80–150 words). Read time (60–90 seconds). Cliché counter (scans for \"always · forever · soulmate · completes me…\"). Promise count (3–5 specific). Audience test. Closing punch. Pass 6 of 8 = ready to print.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003e4. 5 Keepsake Card Designs (5×7\" double-sided)\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\nMinimal · Floral · Botanical Sage · Vintage · Modern. 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Not lavender. Not \"wellness influencer.\" Sage green and warm taupe on cream, Georgia italic headlines, the same demi-fine sensibility you'll find in our jewelry collections. Calm without being clinical.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003ch3\u003eThis is not a substitute for clinical care\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThis is a self-help workbook for wedding-specific stress and anxiety. It is not a substitute for therapy, counseling, or medical care. If your anxiety is constant, your sleep is collapsing, or you're having thoughts of harming yourself, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. We include a full crisis resources page in the workbook (NAMI · Crisis Text Line · 988 · Samaritans · NHS · SHOUT · IASP). 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There is almost nothing built for the actual hard parts: getting the venue's \"yes\" in writing, briefing the officiant on a pet ring bearer contingency, planning what happens if the handler cancels two weeks out or your dog bolts during the processional.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eThis is the kit for that.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\n\u003cp\u003eNot an outfit guide. Not \"fur baby is the star of the day\" toxic positivity. 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